Chapter 254 The Family System
by Jessie@AFNCCChapter 254: The Family System
“This Family Assembly will end here.”
“If there’s anything else, you can just come to me.”
Lu Changsheng looked at his concubines and children and spoke out.
He also realized that it was not good for his concubines and children to speak freely in such a scenario.
If the concubine said that the problem involves the family system, the children, it looks like he, the head of the family, the father, and they, the aunts, have failed to discipline them properly.
A child who says something about a problem may affect sibling relationships and family harmony.
“Yes!”
When the others heard this, they all rose and responded.
Lu Changsheng then walked out of the council hall with Ling Zixiao, Lu Miaogao and the others.
“Sister Miaoge, Zixiao, what problems do you guys think there are currently that need to be improved in terms of the family system?”
“Langjun, if Miaoyun and the girls make mistakes in some family matters, will you punish them?”
Even if you can see your son or daughter’s talents through the system, there are many things that you will still follow your son or daughter’s own wishes.
“Just say it straight from Zixiao.”
“My father also discussed this aspect with your mother and several aunts today .”
This discourse even forms a closed loop where you contribute to the family and everyone is family.
Like Lu Miaohuan was lucky to have broken through to the seventh level of Qi Refining through the High Grade Breaking Pill.
“Otherwise it really wouldn’t be good for the family if they kept letting the Mythical Rue girls take care of it. “
“It naturally doesn’t matter if it’s an extended family, but nowadays, when establishing a cultivation family, it’s still important to have a few moments of family appearance.”
Lu Changsheng smiled and said.
“During this time, if someone does a good job, give more rewards so that other children in the family are also encouraged to do more.”
Indicates that the children of the Lu family are bound to come out as bossy and need to be disciplined.
Let the family arrange marriages, start families early and have more children.
It indicates that Lu Quanzhen is calm and decisive.
So the three of them chatted, but still called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan and others to understand the actual situation of the family.
After chatting with Lu Pingan for a while, he sought out his son, Lu Xianzhi, and his daughter, Lu Ruyi, to chat for a while.
Lu Changsheng sighed slightly when he heard this.
He himself, the head of the family, was not usually in charge and was more casual about most matters.
Hearing this, Lu Changsheng nodded and said.
Continuing to inquire, “And what else do you have in mind for this area?”
“In this situation, if you, Langjun, won’t say anything, the others naturally won’t say anything either, and in the long run, it will appear that the family’s rewards and punishments are not clear.”
Currently the family rules are roughly similar to Green Bamboo Hill.
If you can’t do anything right, then get basic benefits at home.
“Good, I’ll talk to Yun’er, Huanhuan and the others about this aspect later.”
Lu Changsheng spoke slowly towards Lu Quanzhen.
Daughter Lu Ruyi, on the other hand, did not feel too much, thinking that now this kind is not bad, they are quite happy.
Ling Zixiao continued with a light smile on her face.
If there is a lack of ideas in this regard, it shows a lack of sense of belonging to the family, do not regard themselves as a part of the family, this should be severely punished, to clean up the atmosphere.
“As for the really untalented and untalented, just let Miao Yun arrange to start a family earlier, it’s not a problem to raise some idlers at home.”
Lu Yuzhen, who was next to him, spat out her tongue and said so.
After the three of them chatted for a while, Lu Changsheng directly called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan, and Qu Zhenzhen.
A few years ago, he sent Lu Quanzhen to Ruyi County, where Hong Yi worked under him, and Hong Yi also praised Lu Quanzhen.
Lu Changsheng looked at his son and daughter and said with a smile.
“Langjun, I think it’s a good idea to think of spiritual fields, fishing products, medicinal gardens, and family stores, collaborations, and other things, and hand them over to the children.”
When I think about it, I never seem to have any requirements for my children, it’s all about being happy.
“And Miaoyun, Huanhuan and the girls can also focus their minds on internal affairs, and cultivation.”
Lu Miaoyun said that the likes of Lu Pingan at home, Lu Xianzhi and these were all still relatively real.
“As for the spiritual fields, fisheries, medicinal gardens, stores, cooperative businesses, and so on there’s no need to rush, you guys roughly divide it up and we’ll see how to arrange it when the time comes.”
Otherwise, like now, they give a simple arrangement, the follow-up did not pay much attention to it, not only affect Lu Miaoyun arrangement, for the digging of children’s talents, but also not thorough enough.
Since his son had an idea, he was willing to talk more with the other side.
As Lu Quanzhen said, as a member of the family, he should share the family’s suffering and contribute to the family.
“Yes, husband.”
Ling Zixiao opened his mouth and said so.
As Ling Zixiao had said, they were originally many chores as the main mothers in charge of the household.
Neither he, nor Ling Zixiao, nor Lu Miaogao had actually interfered and paid attention to too many matters within the family.
And his own family is all family at the moment.
“I, as a father, have really been too casual about this.”
Qingzhu Mountain Lu family has been hundreds of years of history, family kinship blood aspect, relatively will be much thinner, so more attention to the rules, family rules.
“That’s just it, Miaoyun they were in charge of many things at home, and now they have to be in charge of all this, very busy, maybe they made a little mistake, or the affairs at home are not handled properly.”
He first found his oldest son, Lu Pingan.
“Okay, Yun’er, Huanhuan, Zhenzhen, the internal affairs of the family, personnel matters, or you guys should pay more attention to it.”
However, Lu Changsheng was very clearly cognizant of the fact that his own family was completely different from the Green Bamboo Mountain Lu Family.
Besides, cultivators eating spiritual rice and spiritual meals also helped in their cultivation.
Lu Changsheng spoke out, saying so.
When Lu Changsheng heard this, he looked at his daughter thoughtfully.
As Ling Zixiao said, the family can still afford to lose money now, there are enough trial and error costs.
Ling Zixiao inquired with a smirk.
“Doing it right also encourages, drives.”
Lu Miaoyun hadn’t broken through the seventh level of Qi Refining until now.
“Father, I think this is the kind of thing that is meant to be said on such occasions as this to be effective.”
“Indeed.”
“Instead of relying on me alone to hold the family, to hold everyone together.”
Many of the things that his children did were designated by him and Lu Miaoyun.
“Like children with good spiritual root talent, or those with skill talent, they cultivate with one mind, focus on their skills, or do something relaxing without spending too much time on matters.”
Lu Miaogao sniffed and also sat on the sidelines, speaking out.
After Lu Changsheng voiced out his thoughts, Lu Miaoyun and Lu Miaohuan naturally would not have any opinions on this aspect.
Not to speak of closeness and friendship and brotherly harmony, but in his opinion, it was expected that some of his sons and daughters would be cynical because of their own partiality, selfishness, and unfairness.
This situation leads to not being too harsh on the children’s side and being completely disciplined.
Lu Miaozhen thought her father was coming to say teach, holding Lu Changsheng’s arm, pampered and said.
It seemed to him that his old father, his main job in the family, was to be the coordinator.
“Uh-huh.”
A few of the women responded out loud.
Lu Changsheng pondered in his heart.
He knew that this son of his was precocious and opinionated.
“Daddy, Daddy what are you doing here.”
After discussing the situation, the group chatted about the personality aspects of the children in the family.
“Besides, having a few more would be a contribution to the family.”
For that matter, how could he not be clear.
Lu Changsheng nodded.
Now, with Lu Changsheng in the status up, the status of these concubines and children, also rose, resulting in the child’s character also has a few effects.
“Sooner or later, these matters will have to be handed over to the children to take over, so we might as well let them do it now.”
“Father, brother, he means well too, nothing more.”
After all, the family’s current situation hadn’t reached the point that Lu Quanzhen had said that they needed to act entirely on the clan’s rules.
He also stated that his talent and aptitude were all average, but he was favored by Lu Changsheng in this way, so he was really ashamed.
“And I see that Quan Zhen should have something more to say when he’s at the convention today.”
The general idea is to emphasize rules over family.
“Besides, when a child is doing something wrong and not doing it right, we as elders can teach and talk about it, and the children at home don’t have grievances.”
“Father, in the child’s opinion …”
Son Lu Quanzhen’s ideas about the family, and his concept, the idea is different.
However, his thoughts were still as Ling Zixiao had said this, change through guidance.
“Besides, everyone has different ambitions, and Dad always said it’s good to be happy.”
He thought of earlier, when his son Lu Wuyu spoke to him about the Lu family in Ruyi County.
“No worries, if they are upset and resentful because I mention this, it means that these people are not on the same page with the family and don’t see me as a brother, an elder brother, so why should I be concerned about them?”
Ask this son about the current situation in the family, the senses view.
“This way not only do all the children have business to do, but they also get to sharpen their skills and improve the family ethos.”
By this point from Ling Zixiao, he clearly realized the problem.
Lu Miaogao nodded slightly, agreeing with Ling Zixiao.
He looked at Lu Quanzhen and said, “Your thoughts are roughly understood by Father, but this kind of thing can’t be done all at once.”
When Lu Changsheng was the son-in-law of Qingzhu Mountain, how the children’s life at home had a few constraints.
Lu Changsheng spoke out.
Lu Quanzhen said with deep eyes and a frank expression.
Lu Quanzhen sniffed and said in a deep voice with a straight face.
It’s just that in the family, before the big right and wrong, it doesn’t show.
Knowing that he was generally competent in the management of his family, he was very willing to follow advice.
After talking to his wife, Lu Changsheng walked out of the Everlasting Palace to talk to his children.
It’s better to say it’s a family than to say it’s still an extended family.
Also, he realized a problem himself.
Lu Miaoyun, Qu Zhenzhen, and the others had also watched their children grow up at home.
“Father, child meets father!”
If you don’t contribute to the family, then you are not considered one of us. You don’t have to be polite to such people.
Ling Zixiao said with a light smile after glancing at Lu Miaogao.
Seeing Lu Changsheng, the four of them immediately shouted out.
“Langjun, in terms of the family system, my concubine believes that there are a few points that need to be taken care of.”
This way down, some concubines, sons and daughters, there may be a few opinions in their hearts.
“Brother, we’re all family, there’s no need to be so strict.”
Lu Quanzhen and his son Lu Huaizhen faced the maturity point and bowed respectfully.
The other aspect is also related to the family upbringing.
There are rewards for doing a good job and replacements for not doing a good job.
The two daughters, Lu Miaochen and Lu Yuzhen, were relatively much closer and went forward with smiles.
“Changsheng, Sister Ling has a point.”
Although Lu Pingan’s character was a bit stuffy and straightforward, he still saw many things clearly.
Lu Changsheng listened quietly.
Lu Quanzhen’s eyebrows rose slightly as he eased his thoughts out.
He naturally didn’t need to eat or drink at this cultivation level, but he would occasionally fill his mouth and stomach.
This also makes it easier for you to make arrangements through your children’s talents, according to their talents.
“Why?”
But it is true that some of today’s younger children can be relatively naughty for a few moments.
“Nagisa, actually, things like Xianzhi, Ruyi, and Quanzhen are doing pretty well, so you can let the kids try to do all of these affairs.”
“Ugh.”
“Hehe, today’s family assembly, my father thought that the family does have quite a few aspects that are not in place with regard to scruples, so he came over to talk to you guys and listen to your ideas.”
Ling Zixiao sipped her tea and said with a smile.
Lu Changsheng’s heart lurched at the words, immediately realizing a few things were wrong.
“Don’t be afraid to do it wrong at first, the family gives them enough trial and error costs.”
“Aren’t you worried about your words upsetting the others?”
In his opinion, the biggest problem of the family is still the problem of brotherly harmony.
There are a few responsibilities of the eldest brother in the family.
Lu Changsheng raised an eyebrow and asked out loud.
In fact, they are now Bihu Mountain Lu family, as well as a few tendencies in this regard.
“There’s nothing to ask for, just have fun.”
After returning to the Hall of Eternal Life, Lu Changsheng looked at Lu Miaogao and Ling Zixiao and inquired.
Ling Zixiao came to the table and sat down, with a dignified and elegant demeanor, poured a cup of tea, and continued, “There are quite a few children at home now, and when they reach the age of fourteen or fifteen, they can be arranged to do things.”
With so many brothers in the family, it’s not exactly a close and friendly conversation.
When he found Lu Quanzhen, the other party was taking Lu Miaochen in Hushan Town, looking for his other two younger siblings to roam around.
“If a child feels biased and bad about what their elders are doing, and you don’t even say anything about it, where would they dare to say anything.”
When Lu Changsheng heard his son’s words, he raised an eyebrow and probably understood his conceptual thoughts.
With that, he looked at Lu Quanzhen and said gently, “Quanzhen, in the future, if you have words in this regard, you can speak privately, or transmit your voice and say it to your father, there is no need to say it in public, such words will affect the harmony between you brothers.”
After chatting with his son Lu Quanzhen for almost as long as he could, the sky gradually darkened, and Lu Changsheng brought his son and daughter to the Lu family mansion for dinner.
According to what Ling Zixiao said in this way, all matters are subdivided and done according to ability.
But in reality, he really doesn’t know much about this son as he gets older.
Now in charge of a bunch of family affairs, it was indeed very busy, and there was no time for cultivation on weekdays.
On the one hand, there are so many children at home that there is no way to teach them everything.
“After all, my original intention in establishing the family was to give my sons and daughters a better environment to grow up in, so that they can continue to grow through the family.”
He felt that his family’s current family ethos and system must be emphasized, in addition to the profitability aspect.
Lu Xianzhi’s view was somewhat similar to Lu Pingan’s.
He shook his head and said truthfully, “I don’t think so, at most.”
In the next few days, Lu Changsheng and his children at home chatted, concerned about the situation, but also for the family system changes, to prepare in advance.
Half a month later, Lu Changsheng released a new family rule that all family sons and daughters could take the initiative to apply for family affairs when they reached the age of fourteen.
If one has not yet broken through the fourth level of Qi Refining at the age of sixteen, then the family will make arrangements.
Each year, the family calculates the following year’s salary and benefits based on cultivation progress, family contribution, and moral character.
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